Monday, December 26, 2016

Starting Fresh

my tree and indoor decorations are put away and I've started cleaning the house and putting outdoor decorations away.
I've got a lot of things that I want to start now that Christmas is over and a new year is just around the corner!
One of those things is giving my PCOS the attention it needs to be able to change things for the better
I'm on medication and am adding natural supplimenta recommended by my doctor as well as overhauling my lifestyle by eating according to my insulin resistance and PCOS needs and getting more active. I'm also making it a point to start my days with prayer and meditation because I know in my own power I will run out of determination. But I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!
I just placed my grocery order to follow a 28 day start up plan from an awesome book my mom gave me and I pick it up this evening!

I received our new preschool curriculum right before Christmas so I also need to read up and prepare for starting that with Hannah Kate hopefully on January 2nd.
We are also talking about separating the kids into two different rooms again as then sharing a room is causing more arguments (and violence) as well as sleep disruption and bedtime routine issues. Basically my goal is to revamp our life in the most beneficial way possible for everyone! I want to be intentional, organized, productive, kind, patient, fun, healthy, loving and joyful! So that is exactly what I'm setting out to do! Lord help me!

Saturday, September 10, 2016

The Appraisal

Well, we got the appraisal back last night and it came in $7,000 under the agreed upon asking price in our contract.
Our realtor wrote up an amendment for the contract asking that the seller come down on the price to meet the appraisal number with no other changes. We signed it, he sent it. He also warned us that it is highly likely the seller might agree to lowering the price IF they are no longer responsible for our closing costs which they were agreeing to contribute $5,000
And as he warned that is exactly what we just heard.
They agreed to lower the price but now they don't want to contribute closing which is a bit of an issue for us.

I have contacted our lender to get a good idea of what our final number will be to bring to closing now that we have to pay for all of our closing costs.

With all this going on our closing date is definitely NOT next weekend. Right now we are shooting for the first business day in October so we can get October and November without a mortgage payment. That's Monday, October 3rd.
Once we get all this figured out we really only have the survey left and then the lenders and title company getting the paperwork together so hitting that October 3rd date should not be a problem.

We will have to come up with a little more money than anticipated but we still believe this is our promised land and that God is very much in this big transaction. With 3 weeks between closing on this house and the farm it is possible we could get our escrow check just in time for closing if we hound the lender a bit. So that's our prayer right now, and that it's enough to mostly cover the extra costs.

Either way we are moving forward and are a little closer to getting to our farm. (And that's a really good thing considering we have added two dogs and 12 chicks to our family in anticipation! ;)

Onward and Upward! :)

Tuesday, September 6, 2016

Seasons Beginning to Change

I love Septenber and the very beginnings of Autumn; decorations of leaves and pumpkins in stores, the smell of cinnamon, darker skies, cooler breezes and for me, a special sense of peace and joy that I tend to accompany with Piano Music from Jim Brickman.

This month I put together a page of monthly goals. A month of progress, nothing too lofty or long term, but sensible, attainable and helpful.
One of these goals was to start blogging again, and another is to keep a private journal. I think I know that if I make time to write, even if it's just what my days or weeks have been like or what I'm feeling or struggling with, I tend to be a healthier, more patient, even tempered person.

Today was the first day of Mother's Day Out for both of my precious children! I already miss them but I have been very productive in these last few hours. Hannah Kate is 3 and 1/2 and Levi is 20 months. I hope their first day was lots of fun! They are going through so many changes right now with our move to the country and I'm trying to be sensitive and understanding to how that might be rocking their little words of stable familiarity.

Our last big hurtle to get through in this process of buying a micro farm is the appraisal. It's been done but he has until Friday to submit the paperwork and I just want it to say that it's worth exactly what we've agreed to pay so we can finally breathe and relax. After that everything else should be a breeze.

We visit the house pretty much every weekend. We have been visiting a church out there, that's where the kinds started Mothers Day Out today. And every time I am out that way I want to pull in and take a few moments just to sit on that magnificent front porch and wonder at Gods beautiful creation! It's so quiet out there, so peaceful and sweet. The kids love it, they try to get into the house when we are there! Haha.
I see us homeschooling on those porches and in the kitchen. I see the kids playing in their shared farm themed room, I see us hosting fall festivals, thanksgiving and Christmas parties, I see us bringing home a future baby, lots of family interaction, hands on learning, laughter and love. I am hoping and praying these sweet images are from God and that, as I believe, hHe is giving me a sense of assurance that this is our family's promised land. It all falls so perfectly into the vision we are pursuing for our family.

In any event, God is good all the time, and I know He has great plans for us.